Books
Tactical Love: The Field Guide
The full framework — patterns of coercive control, the role of the support person, and a long-haul strategy for staying close.
LIBRARY
An evolving collection of materials for support persons. Some are free — start anywhere. Some are paid — they fund the work that keeps the rest free.
Books
The full framework — patterns of coercive control, the role of the support person, and a long-haul strategy for staying close.
Guides
Plain-language patterns most support persons miss. A short PDF you can read in one sitting.
Guides
Scripts, openers, and pitfalls for the hardest conversations support persons have.
Workbooks
A guided journal designed for the long arc of supporting someone in a coercive control relationship.
Workbooks
A worksheet pack for protecting your own wellbeing without pulling away from your person.
Audio
Six short audio essays — read by the author — for when reading feels like too much.
STAY CLOSE
Once a month, a short letter with one new idea, one new resource, and a reminder that you are not doing this alone.