LIBRARY

Read, download, carry with you.

An evolving collection of materials for support persons. Some are free — start anywhere. Some are paid — they fund the work that keeps the rest free.

Paid

Books

Tactical Love: The Field Guide

The full framework — patterns of coercive control, the role of the support person, and a long-haul strategy for staying close.

Free

Guides

Recognizing Coercive Control

Plain-language patterns most support persons miss. A short PDF you can read in one sitting.

Free

Guides

Conversations That Keep the Door Open

Scripts, openers, and pitfalls for the hardest conversations support persons have.

Paid

Workbooks

The Steady Support Workbook

A guided journal designed for the long arc of supporting someone in a coercive control relationship.

Free

Workbooks

Boundaries for Support Persons

A worksheet pack for protecting your own wellbeing without pulling away from your person.

Paid

Audio

Field Notes: Audio Companion

Six short audio essays — read by the author — for when reading feels like too much.

STAY CLOSE

Quiet, useful notes for support persons.

Once a month, a short letter with one new idea, one new resource, and a reminder that you are not doing this alone.

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